Found this poem
here which is a great gift idea. (Jill- I think we should get one for all the kids for the year mark) It was written by a son who lost his father to cancer.
Cancer just sucks..
If my Father were here
He’d show us this
That true love is found
In a family kiss
That a hug must come freely
That a smile leaves a mark
That a quarrel long forgotten
Must remain in the dark
If he were here with us now
He would teach us by deed
How to give oft in silence
To those so in need
How to walk through life proudly
With our heads pointed high
Hold regret a mere moment
And then let it pass by
If my Father were here
On this sad and gray day
He would give us “that look”
Then know just what to say
He would smile at us brightly
Make us laugh on a dime
Tell us just what will heal us
Family… and time
But wait, he is with us
He will always be with us
Though his body will rest
In a safe space below
He’ll continue to guide us
And he wants us to know
That although he is absent
He’ll continue his love
And he’ll visit us daily
From his home up above
And we’ll see him again, but until we do, Let us honor his memory
Let us treasure his memory.
Let us never forget that the only things
which mattered to him, were not actually things
But instead, the souls of those
of us here today, and those in his heart, which are not.
Ben is trying to sell his house! We are ready to ditch the bachelor pad and get a place of our own. If you know of ANYONE who is looking for a twin home in the nice holladay area please, please spread the word. You can see more pics of the house below..
